Have you ever wondered how come some people are peak performers in their own fields of profession as others? You may come across professionals complaining of not making their mark in their own fields as others. They complaint but do nothing to condition their behaviour to reach the top.

I always admire people who are doing things that I am not being able to do right now. I can remember my child hood days with some thought. Once I was playing a game of football. There was this big guy who tackled me from behind which I thought was a bad play. I tripped and fell. I was very annoyed that I was being fouled. There was no referee around.  I stood up in with a spirit to a brawl. This big guy took this as a challenge and the next thing I knew I was on the ground again and this big guy was on top of me smothering me. I simply could not overcome him as he was really big. I was really at his mercy and it was an embarrassing moment in my life – I thought.

The next thing he was crying and moving his body as though he was in great pain. At that moment I found my way through to get over him. I realised that my younger brother took a sleeper and whack his back vigorously like a stinging bee to put me in a safer position. Now I am above him and the big guy was in deep trouble. I gave him a punch on this right side of his head after much persuasion from my brave younger brother.

Now I came to realise that as I confront others I will end up in trouble as the incident has registered negatively in my brain. I am not saying you have to become a warrior and fight everyone to become successful. I don believe in competition. I believe in achievement. What I am saying if you want to become successful in whatever you want to become you have to change your behaviour.

I also wonder gamblers. I don’t play any game of chances. I fear of losing. I know people who are consistent gamblers. I was amazed why these people gamble their monies away. I know a person some time back who says he always win when he gambles. He said he never lose not even once. I asked him how he did that. He says just think of winning the next round.

So if you want to change some part of your life- be it your finances, wealth building, your relationship with people – you have to change your behaviour to put you in the right track to achieve all those you desire.

I got telephone call from my son’s school principal. He told me my son had entangled himself in a fight with a school boy. Upon enquiry from the principal I understand that my son was in an exercise hall at that time. As he was exercising, his counterpart came towards him and wants to monopolise his work area. My son told him politely that there was not enough space for him. His counterpart just pushed him and secured the place. The next moment my son gave him a punch. The bully fell to the ground!

I was really happy that my son got a great conditioning when he put up a challenge. I was really happy for him. He has been conditioned positively for a start.